About eight months in the past we had been having issues with my 10 yr previous stepson, he was once stealing from his college virtually day by day, his biological dad stopped seeing him and his brother on a regular basis almost 2 years ago when me and my wife got married. This cause the older boy to begin to act out in order to grab his fathers attention. This culminated in a meeting with the school officials who informed us that he has stolen everyday for almost 2 months because he missed his dad. He began to resent me as a father figure and finally told the school counselor that I kicked and punched him and his brother as well as my biological son who was 15 at the time. I had recently lost my job, we were in the process of moving, and talking with the property manager when we got a surprise visit from a DFS representative. Needless to say I was hurt and dumbfounded by the charges so in a fit of frustration and pride I said to have both of the boys go live with their Dad and my wife agreed. Now the charges were dismissed the truth came out and the boy lied plain and simple everyone knew that, however my wife really didn’t want them to go with their Dad but she did not communicate this with me at the time. so over a period of 8 months she has built up resentment and anger towards me. She has forgiven me and the anger seems to be fading but the resentment is still very much there. The sex has stopped, the hugging and kissing is minimal she spends more time out with her single friends out than with me. All of a sudden I have been relegated back to almost boyfriend status. She has flat out told me that she is not feeling me romantically at this point and that even though she loves me she is not ‘In love with me right now’ She is also not sure when or if the Passion will return. This is totally new territory for me I am not sure how to handle this. This is hurting me terribly and a part of me wants to put her out and tell her i can’t live like this and to go on her own way but I do still love her and I want my wife back. She is still making plans for me and her to go on a trip to vegas in July so I’m seriously confused. Advice anyone please?
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